When you’ve spent some time exploring your gay sensuality, you’ll inevitably come to considerations of anal play. While not every gay couple engages in anal sex, most find it to be a marvelous way to share love and intimacy. Still, newcomers to anal sensuality are well advised to go slow. Accustom yourself gradually to anal penetration with anal sex toys before having your partner penetrate you.
When you’re beginning to explore anal penetration, experiment with your finger before you go out and buy an anal toy. Relax yourself with a warm bath, gay erotica or even a good workout before your first experiments in penetration. Your sphincter muscles will be most receptive to anal penetration when you’re relaxed and won’t be as prone to clench.
Apply a generous coating of anal lube to your finger before inserting even your fingertip. The anus and rectum have a plethora of super-sensitive clusters of tissue so even this minor penetration can produce powerful sensual feelings. Next, it’ll be time to get your first anal toy. You want to get a slim anal probe to enhance the sensations you’ve enjoyed with your early experiments while still gradually working your way toward being penetrated by your partner.
There’s no reason your partner has to be left out of your early anal fun, either. They’ll be delighted to gently finger you, providing pressures and motions that are too awkward for you to reach on your own while being sexually exhilarating. They’ll also be thrilled to accompany you in your explorations of anal sex toys and when you let him penetrate you for the first time, he’ll be well versed on the anal sensations you love and the ones to avoid.
From here, it’s all a matter of exploring positions and new ways to enjoy anal intimacy. Learning how to safely enjoy anal sex and use anal sex toys may seem like a long process, but there are pleasures to be discovered every step of the way. Take your time, be patient with your partner and yourself, and enjoy the rich, sensual world of gay anal sex.
